It’s an age-old question – what do men want from a woman to achieve a long term loving relationship? Most of us want to be in a relationship for the right reasons, and we often ask ourselves when we will have the key to unlock and understand what it is about a man that drives this ‘knack’ of relationship for a lifetime of bliss.
Building good relationships
At the core, men desire the same things in a woman that women do. For most men, the ideal relationship has two components:
- Physical Escalation (Sexual intercourse)
- Long Term Relationship
We all know that men are more interested in perceived beauty than in real beauty, and while a woman is more likely to be ‘appreciated’ for kindness or intelligence than her beauty, there is still a biological component to make a relationship last. Our biological constraints are not ‘unborn’ difficulties however, but natural requirements of survival that are programmed into our DNA. These are the needs that must be fulfilled in a successful relationship:
- Love (Physical or Emotional)
These may seem like simple requests, but honey does not have to be complicated. If you are about to start a lasting relationship with an uninhibited meat man that is, then these need to be prop scale and focused. The following are examples of what men want in women for long term relationship purposes:
- Long Term Relationship Goals
- Common Ground (Interests and Dates)
- Emotional maturity
- Financial stability
- Triggered signature events
Keep in mind that men are not enamored with ‘visually attractive’ women like women are. That said, emotional attraction is part of a successful relationship.
The male species of human beings are still those that have the drive to survive and pass on their genes. You will find that most men’s values and relationship goals are still those of survival. When you start to understand the emotional needs that men have been wired to fulfill since boyhood, then a great relationship is imminent. In such a relationship, men truly become men, and biology has no way to play a part.
If the above are common human emotions that you would like to encourage then begin to be real with yourself and with your partner. You are blessed to be a woman. To adore and adore another woman calls for great courage and integrity. Your relationship goal is to achieve a lasting and happy union of two souls. That may not appear to be a lot of work, but the beauty in it is the commitment and sacrifice. My only wish is that you find the right man for you. Love is precious and a bit like a drug, better taken early rather than later.
Good Conversation Starters
Those that only have a grasp of the superficial aspects of life and dating may think that having a quality conversation over dinner is a great achievement. I disagree with them. Whilst great conversation is worthy, critical thinking skills are even more important in the world of dating. Having the tools to discuss a varied range of topics with your mate shows that you are intelligent, thoughtful, and confident in your ideas.
It is not enough for you to be well-read. A relationship needs to be well balanced. If not, stepping outside your comfort zone can be the best decision you ever make.
It isn’t about what you know, but what you can convey through your communicating. There are a lot of very important topics that do not endo being spoken. If you do not know them, then you need to make up your mind before the date or bottle of your anxieties until after you leave.
On the other hand, it is reassuring to know that the date is not a competition. You are not being judged on how well you fare, but on your personality, style, and snap. You’re not trying to win. You’re not trying to be perfect. You are both just showing your true selves. If you’re awful, then so what. You need not be sitting across from you.
It bears emphasis that the single most attractive quality a man can have in a woman is confidence. A man must have the courage (and confidence) to be his own man. Hold your own in any environment, without trying to be someone you are not.
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