How to Pick Up Women – Wherever You Go

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Wherever you go, there she is. Does that ring a bell in your cave? Chances are, it does. We are talking about the dreaded woman, standing right in front of you, watching you like a hungry vulture, waiting for her order. It is not every day you see a woman who will walk right up to you and ask you if you would like to share her lunch, so it is only natural to be a little bit cautious. You do not want to appear over-eager, or else you will risk being rejected in front of the guy you are talking to.

Confidence is a key

What you do want to do is show her that you are a confident man who gets what he wants. With those techniques, you will be able to walk up to any woman, anywhere, and have a meaningful conversation without feeling the need to suck up to her.

Just walk up to her and start speaking to her in a normal manner. She will respond to you if she is interested in you, and you will have a much easier time carrying the conversation.

Now that you know how to approach women in general, let us explore the specific location where you can find these elusive women who are waiting for you to approach them.

First of all, you want to take a look around the place you are currently in. Is there a bar nearby that you enjoy going to? Go ahead and grab a drink. You can tell a lot about a person by the way they drink. If you find one that is attractive, such as a nice-looking woman who enjoys her drinks alone, she is more than likely looking for something in the way of a nice conversation.

Now that you have given her a nice compliment and are now beginning a conversation, try to grab the attention of the woman you are interested in a little. Look away from her once in a while to allow her to meet your gaze. When she does, smile and say something like, “Hi, wasn’t my name picked out of a hat today, you never know who might have been looking and haven’t gotten around to introducing themselves yet.” Say it in a nice joke way.

Make her comfortable in your company

Continue chatting to the woman a little longer, and once you feel she is a little comfortable with your company, you can start asking some further open-ended questions like where does she buy her dress and does she have an office or work out buddy.

Be charming, and your odds of a smile back will increase. If she does not share your sense of humor, not comment other than that she is a nice person, and you would like to talk to her again. Leave her with an open-ended question and do not ask for any phone numbers. Wait until later in the conversation to start asking for her number.

Now comes the time where you have to make the move. Look her in the eyes for a little longer. Slowly lean in and ask her for her number. She might be hesitant at first, but if you have done your job well, she will give it out to you. Take this moment to small talk with her. Try to find out more about her and listen to her opinions. Do not turn your conversation into a rave. Only tell her one or two things about yourself, yet leave her with something to think about.

Now before you leave, tell her that you would like to see her again. If she is interested in going on a date with you, she will have no problem making a decision. Chances are she will be excited about meeting you the next time you speak to her. If she does not want to go on a date with you, or she says she does not prefer to go on a date with you at this time, do not act like it is the end of the world. Just assume she is not interested in seeing you anymore and move on. There will be other opportunities, and you will get her information and more when you are ready to move the conversation to the next level.

Following these short steps will get you on your way to successfully picking up women. Before you know it, the right woman will be giving you her number android number.

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